My mom

My mom is the most blunt person I had ever know. I heard a quote from some person "you don't get hurt by someone unless you love them or really care about them." It's true come to me and my mom... I get hurt a lot my mom weather my mom realize or not.(I guess I'm sensitive) My mom likes to compare me and my brother with other kid allot, ( I guess most Asian 'll do that, but my mom were more ridicules.) She'll tell me how hard working other kid is and how those kid were really help their family, not only they do extremely well in school, smart, also they work since they're little and already start making money, and they do their house work they cook for their parent, took care of their sibling and never their parent worry. Hey something to hear those thing is motive but hear too much is something different, especially after you hear about all those great thing about other kid, she'll put you down and basically said you aren't as great as other. But most time what she compare me for is my height and my appearance. almost every day she'll told me, "why you're so short and why you're so ugly" even though most of time she sound joking, but how can she compare something that I'm born with. and always told me how her friends dollar is so pretty and so tall and don't have to worry about their future because they find a good husband and told that I have to work hard because I'm ugly how very interesting way to encourage me. Ya, I heard it so much that I go numb, but still it hurt, just simply because I'm a person. simply because I love her and care the way how she think about me...